Writer: Nirupama Sapkota
“My friends on Facebook”
There was a time , when I just made my facebook account. I was so excited eager to use Facebook. I added many known as well as unknown friends. It was time when I was 16 and 17 , my teenage. At the beginning one of the unknown friend wants to be my friend only and I accepted his friendship and after some days he want me as a girlfriend but at that time I rejected . Later on again one unknown friend ask me to do friendship but this time I rejected his friendship and he wrote very bad and rough words about me . At that time I feel like adding unknown people is really harmful and dangerous and I blocked him . As I grew , my exicted , eager using facebook decreases but then also I never stop checking new feed on facebook.
One day at my birthday , my brother didnot wished me and I called him to scold him that he forget my birthday but he was in big trouble , he was arrested in cyber crime. One of his enemy made his fake account and put some prone movies there and added family member as well as his ladies friend . One of the ladies friend complained this at police station and he was trapped by police but after investigation police knew that crime was not did by my brother and police leave him and that girl also feel sorry about him .
After hearing all these, I opened my facebook and delete all unknown friend and changed my privacy setting and now a days this type of news are increasing rapidly , I get too much frustration and before accepting some one I recheck his/her account more then two times and then only I accept him or her if that person is well recognized.
Question and Answer with Nirupama
1. Tell us more about you.
I am student of social work and psychology. I love working on solution for problems. I would describe my self as a thoughtful and optimistic. My personality type is ambivert, I can be a extrovert as well as introvert according to situation. I am team player, I am happy to work with other people.
2. What was your thought when you apply to Wordism competition?
I didnot thought to be a winner. That question striked on my mind and related to that question, I had alots of experience in my life time and I took wordism competition as a great floor to explore my views and experience.
3. What are your dreams and aspiration?
My dream is to see the world with out mental problem. I want to be part of everyone’s smile. I want to be successful and happy.
I have dream that one day I can open clinic for mentally problem people beside these my dream is to make my family happy.
4. How do you feel being the Wordism Hero for Asadh?
I feel so good and excited to be a wordism runnerup for asadh. Next time I wanna see my self at top. 🙂 🙂
5. Anything you want to say who is reading this!
Wordism competition is the best platform to share ideas and views of youngsters, so I request or suggest to take part on it.
About the article I want to say that different people have different perspective and nature and as their perspective they commented on you which might not be fruitful to you and which can mentally hamper you, so before adding some one find out all detail about the person.
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